I feel you cuzo, especially if youve been playin for a while and your really tight, and everyone knows your tight its like all they do is watch you, especially after drumline came out, more and more peeps are paying attention to drummers. When people talk to you and tell you how tight you sound and stuff, just tell em, its all about praisin God with this gift he's given you, after all you ain't up to entertain folk. Maybe you get so much attention because of your gear, a size down of the kit could help, but if your church is massive ya'lls song selections are heavy on percussion then go with your current set, but if your tight, people are gonna pay attention to you no matter what. I find that just imagining yourself in your basement by yourself playin helps alot. Prayer don't hurt either