Story Time...
My cousin "Joe" who is 20 received some inheritance money after Joe's grandmother passed away. $60,000 to be exact. So, of course, before Joe actually received a penny, Joe managed to spend about $2500 because Joe figured, "I'm 'bout to be paid!" (Joe borrowed the money from other family members.)
Joe’s mother knows that Joe is a basket case. So, instead of giving Joe the whole $60,000, she decides to give Joe $10,000 in installments. Although not totally legal because Joe is over 18, the installments were for his own good.
Before paying off Joe's debts, Joe decides to go ahead and purchase a "custom made, gold and diamond grill, baby!" There goes the $10,000 and then some. Plus, the folks that Joe owed money are now pissed.
I’m sitting over here shaking my head. After all the conversations I had with Joe about finances, I thought we had come to a meeting of the minds. I realize now that Joe had never paid me any attention the whole time.
So, I’m discouraged. I feel like there’s a good chance I’m wasting my time when I talk with certain people about finances. I can talk about the importance of finances with folks until my face turns blue. However, instilling the motivation is something folks have to do on their own.