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What are things that every man should know how to do?
« on: September 17, 2011, 08:00:29 AM »
I've been tasked starting a young men's ministry at my church (middle school to college age), and I'm trying to come up a list of things that ALL men should know how to do.  For example, change a tire, wash your own clothes, cook SOMETHING, balance a checkbook, etc.  I want this ministry to be more than meeting once a month, asking them how things are at school and home, playing some games, and sending them back home.

Any suggestions?

Thank you in advance!!!

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #1 on: September 17, 2011, 08:31:59 AM »
They should learn how to take care of children: change diapers, hold a baby, feed the baby, etc.

They should know how to conduct themselves based on the relationship in which they are engaged. For example, how you act around your boys is not how you act around your boss or around your girlfriend/wife.  Know how to code switch.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #2 on: September 17, 2011, 08:35:57 AM »
They should learn how to take care of children: change diapers, hold a baby, feed the baby, etc.

They should know how to conduct themselves based on the relationship in which they are engaged. For example, how you act around your boys is not how you act around your boss or around your girlfriend/wife.  Know how to code switch.

Good stuff!  C.A.D. (Chivarly Ain't Dead) will be part of this as well. 

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #3 on: September 17, 2011, 08:42:57 AM »
Cut the yard....
tie a tie...
jump start a car....
CLEAN UP...
know how to fish...
know how to hook up (some) electronics

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #4 on: September 17, 2011, 08:57:42 AM »
Good stuff!  C.A.D. (Chivarly Ain't Dead) will be part of this as well.

Exactly.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #5 on: September 17, 2011, 08:59:34 AM »
Cut the yard....
tie a tie...
jump start a car....
CLEAN UP...
know how to fish...
know how to hook up (some) electronics

The parts in bold are gold.  Cutting the yard is a sore spot for me. I know how to do BUT I HATE it.


I've gone this far in my life without knowing how to fish--I don't find it to be that deep.  But, I'm also from the city ain't too many ponds around.  :D
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #6 on: September 17, 2011, 09:01:33 AM »
The parts in bold are gold.  Cutting the yard is a sore spot for me. I know how to do BUT I HATE it.


I've gone this far in my life without knowing how to fish--I don't find it to be that deep.  But, I'm also from the city ain't too many ponds around.  :D

I love to cut the yard...but I dont know how to fish...as a matter of fact, I've NEVER been fishing before..

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #7 on: September 17, 2011, 09:20:41 AM »
Ray and SJon, I'm gonna pray for ya'll and this fishing thing  lol! 

I LOVE to fish!  I just rarely get to go. 

I appreciate you guys' input.  The tie thing is on point.  I take it for granted that I know how to, but it is now on the list.

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #8 on: September 17, 2011, 09:46:27 AM »
Commit (seems abstract, but if a guy has a commitment issue in one area it'll spread to others)
Start and use a grill
Light maintenance on a car (changing lights, , jumping, ) or diagnosis

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #9 on: September 17, 2011, 10:02:25 AM »
Speaking of maintenance, all men need to know how to use some tools.  There are probably some grown men that if you asked them for an Allen wrench they would ask you, "who's Allen?"

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #10 on: September 17, 2011, 10:10:06 AM »
I agree with the second part of Jonathan's list and I agree with RayJ's list.

From a woman's perspective, I would add that every man should know how to treat a lady (again, CAD :)):

-open her door to let her in and out of the car
-open doors at stores, restaurants, etc.
-extend your elbow for her to grab when walking, esp down stairs or off a curb
-offer your jacket if she's cold
-throw your jacket over a puddle so she can walk acr-- ok, ok, just kidding :D
-pull her chair at a restaurant
-help her with her coat: on/off
-carry her bags. ALWAYS.

Granted, many woman aren't into chivalry or only want it to a certain extent. Men should still know how to offer these things in case it means something to her. And if nothing else, treat your mama like a lady.

Other stuff:
-follow instructions for "some assembly required" stuff
-use a charcoal grill
-buy a car
-drive stick shift
-read a map (even if the days of GPS)
-iron your shirt, but NOT your black pants :)
-buy good gifts for your lady
-shave
-buy a suit
-throw a punch (hey, you never know)
-calculate square footage
-use Google
-play Spades. Or Poker. Or pool. Or something.
-be committed to everything you do
-WORK ETHIC (be on time, leave on time, do what you're supposed to do, follow rules, don't be a rebel, don't quit when they get on your nerves, etc.)
-be faithful (to your woman, to your family, your church, your boss, etc.)
-eat in public
-how to cut meat (I don't know why parents stopped teaching that)
-make up a bed
-use basic tools

When you're in love you don't want to fall asleep bc reality is finally better than your dreams.

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #11 on: September 17, 2011, 10:12:09 AM »
Ok while I was typing, you guys said some of what I was saying. Didn't mean to be redundant.

I agree with CSE and FP. ;D
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #12 on: September 17, 2011, 10:42:50 AM »
Ok while I was typing, you guys said some of what I was saying. Didn't mean to be redundant.

I agree with CSE and FP. ;D

Thanks Lady!  You've got some good stuff up there!

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #13 on: September 17, 2011, 10:43:46 AM »
Make money
Save money
Play a musical instrument with skill
Paint a wall
Negotiate deals
Command respect from his woman
Speak in public in front of others
Parallel park
Take good photos
Be decisive and confident in all situations


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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #14 on: September 17, 2011, 10:44:39 AM »
Also, every man should know the basic rules of hygiene and grooming: shower as often as necessary, at least once a day. Use deodorant every time you shower. Use moisturizer: ashy is not sexy. Get regular haircuts, shape-ups, line-ups, whatever. Keep the ears and neck clean and the teeth brushed and the nose hairs trimmed. It all sounds like it goes without saying, but..... it doesn't. :-\

Ohhhhhh and one of my MAJOR pet peeves. I cannot stand to see a man wearing a white dress shirt and no t-shirt underneath or a colored t-shirt or one with writing or pictures. SMH. PLEEEEEASE teach them that.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #15 on: September 17, 2011, 10:47:44 AM »
I love to cut the yard...but I dont know how to fish...as a matter of fact, I've NEVER been fishing before..

Neither have I.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #16 on: September 17, 2011, 10:48:22 AM »
Make money
Save money
Play a musical instrument with skill
Paint a wall
Negotiate deals
Command respect from his woman
Speak in public in front of others
Parallel park
Take good photos
Be decisive and confident in all situations




Agreed. (except the musical instrument part).

Very good list. Every man should know how to earn money aside from his day job.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #17 on: September 17, 2011, 10:52:49 AM »
Humble himself under the mighty hand of God.

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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #18 on: September 17, 2011, 10:59:00 AM »
I just want to clarify my "be faithful" point. I didn't mean teach them to be faithful. That goes without saying. I meant teach them HOW to be faithful. Give them practical lessons for avoiding temptation and teach them what to do in certain situations and how to handle certain temptations.
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Re: What are things that every man should know how to do?
« Reply #19 on: September 17, 2011, 11:08:21 AM »
-iron your shirt, but NOT your black pants :)
You iron them inside out.  :) If you want a crease you can put a sheet over it and iron on steam. ;D
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