All kidding aside, you are speaking about their Absolute Series right?
I would go with all Maple shells or all Birch shells. I wouldn't mix it up. Either wood will give you the tonalities that you want to a point. The rest (and larger part) of the equation is drum size and head selection.
Your desired small tom sound is: "bright and lively w/ a little bit of focused attack"
The Birch shell will give you the bright portion of that combination, and your head choice and tuning preferences will adjust your attack.
Your size selection 7.5x10 and 8x12 are great sizes and in my opinion are versatile in being able to step or down in tuning range without too much difficulty.
Your desired big tom sound is: "deep focused and precise"
Birch is known as the "EQ'd" wood. Hence, its focused and precise. Loose tuning and correct heads will give your birch shell the deep tone you are looking for.
And Your Kick, thats easy, No matter what, throw a SuperKick II on it and you are good to go.
Birch will carry a slightly brighter aftertaste. (Hey, thats my way of explaining it). Head Selection and tuning of course will get you to what you are looking for.
Now....The Maple Shells will give you all the desired sounds you want, with a tweak in tuning and head selection.
Either kit is great and a worthy investment, or......
if you really want Hybrid, the PHOENIX might be calling your name.