WOW! ANOTHER CAR BITES THE DUST!

[changedman]

I am sure this post will probably put me right up there with those "people who always have drama going on and drain people by talking about it", but for those who truly care about me, I felt compelled to share...


This morning, I was on my way to church and the Avalon ran hot.  I waited a good 15 to 20 minutes and got out to put some antifreeze in it.  When I twisted the cap on the engine, scalding hot water spewed from it and the cap went somewhere up under the car.

A church member passed by and saw me and took me on to GPHMBC.

After church, one of my choir members (a mechanic) said "it's probably just a loose hose or something simple.  Let's go look at it.

He jumps in his truck.  Me and my mom jump in her car.

We all arrive at the scene of the accident and prepare to see what we can to do recover the cap (with a broom handle or something) and get it off the road enough for him to diagnose what was really wrong.

REMEMBER...I START A NEW JOB TUESDAY...KEEP THIS IN MIND


This white SUV....



comes flying in the lane alongside the emergency lane (where we were) and SLAMS into my choir member's truck...of course, totaling it!!!!

She also hits another car, which in turn goes UNDER my gold avalon and totals my baby.  Actually, TOTAL may not be the right word...judge for yourself...



You can probably see my drummer on the side (in the striped shirt) saying "Dude...that used to be your car".


Long story made short, the Avalon is a thing of the past.  So is my choir member's truck who was coming to help me so of course now I feel absolutely awful.


If you are one of those people who never has any problems or drama occur in your life, you should be thankful.  Many of us who don't WANT it seem to end up at its doorstep, often times without even trying.  We don't bother people...we go out of our way for others...invest MUCH into making life easier and more comfortable for others...and in return we come up on the losing end.

So if you're not having problems or drama, don't brag....just count your blessings and be thankful.

[PianoWizard]

Just glad to hear that you are okay....and I am certainly counting my blessings because I'm one of those who finds drama far away. Be Blessed "changedman"....Be Blessed.

PianoWiz...

[B_XALTED]

herman... i know it may be hard to see now... but things happen for a reason. there is no doubt in my mind that god closed that door with the old car so that he could open up another door wit an even better car. god blessed you with a new job and even the fact that you are still alive to tell this story. he didnt bring you this far to leave you hangin. be encouraged and count it all joy... be blessed.   

[PianoWizard]

herman... i know it may be hard to see now... but things happen for a reason. there is no doubt in my mind that god closed that door with the old car so that he could open up another door wit an even better car. god blessed you with a new job and even the fact that you are still alive to tell this story. he didnt bring you this far to leave you hangin. be encouraged and count it all joy... be blessed.   

AMEN TO THAT.

PianoWiz...

[B_XALTED]

.... and to the people who have never been through a storm.... get an umbrella because your storm is coming.

[changedman]

Another pic of my car, with another car up under it....



My car against the guard rail of the expressway...


My church member's truck....


Another closeup of Dennis' truck...





My sister's wedding is THIS Saturday and me (Coordinator of the Year) has 1,000 things to do with NO CAR!

I am glad to be alive, though!


Just pray, saints.  All this coming behind the high blood pressure, the insomnia, the decision to stay at GPHMBC or LEAVE, it's a lot on a guy, you know!?

And I would eat some fried chicken to "cope", but remember....lay off the fried foods!?  WOW!

[sjonathan02]

Do you have car insurance? If so, is it the kind of insurance that will allow you to rent a car while making the necessary arrangements for getting a new car?


If not, do you have the funds to be able to rent a car or borrow a friend's vehicle (at least for this week).

Glad to know that you're alive and well. God WILL supply all your needs. Now, put that faith into action and make some phone calls, ASAP, or first thing tomorrow morning.

[changedman]

Nah. I'm asking the saints (who don't view this as unnecessary drama) to pray for real. Where my mind is right now there is one total permanent solution to this that ensures that my "going through too much at one time" is permanently over.  On top of everything else this kinda did it for me. Real talk.

[SirTJ]

Nah. I'm asking the saints (who don't view this as unnecessary drama) to pray for real. Where my mind is right now there is one total permanent solution to this that ensures that my "going through too much at one time" is permanently over.  On top of everything else this kinda did it for me. Real talk.

If that sounds like what I think it sounds like, don't even think it. Remember that the word tells us that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared to the glory which shall be revealed. Yes, it's cliche. Yes, I know you hear it alot, but you've got to remember that GOD WANT PUT MORE ON YOU THAN YOU CAN BEAR! He knows your heart...he knows yourself better than you do. While you're worrying about it, God's already making strides towards your deliverance. When you realize that and implant it in your heart, not only will you receive peace through THIS trial, but also in life generally.

And I ain't just telling you what I heard, brotha.

[changedman]

Yeah that's the eighth chapter of romans verse eighteen.  Dude my spirit is disgusted. From  sleeplessness to high blood pressure to this?

[changedman]

Not to mention that working at the church for chump change wasn't cutting it so I got hired on a REAL job with some REAL benefits. The job starts Tuesday. This is too much for one man at one time. But it's not too much for God. I know.

[changedman]

Wow! I just saw the delayed broadcast of the accident on the news.  I am so embarrassed. Wow!

[4hisglory]

Wow....I am sorry to hear about that.  Will be praying for you and your situation.

[lordluvr]

Hey Herm, I'm definitely praying for you, bro.  I know things are rough for you at the moment, but stay encouraged, brother.  The sufferings of this time will not compare to the glory that will be revealed in you.

[changedman]

Thanks.  I am holding on to my faith by a thread....just being honest. I am tired of these things happening to me when i'm always there for everyone and overextend myself to anyone who needs me. Just doesn't seem fair at all!

[ReddGirl]

You are next in line for a miracle. The enemy has seen your desire to live right and be obedient and is trying to discourage you. Laugh in his face and ask God to take care of you. Trust Him and watch Him move on your behalf. When the enemy comes in like a flood, the spirit of the Lord will raise up a standard against him. Be encouraged.

[LaylaMonroe]

I'm so sorry about the accident, and so grateful you weren't in the car.

Be encouraged.  Know that this is just a small part of the "all things" that will work together for your good.  There's a reason David (and Sheri Moffet) said that you have to encourage yourself.  Sometimes, and I don't care how holy or sanctified or Biblical you are, sometimes you just don't have it in you to be happy.  Sometimes life can really get the best of you, troubles can really weigh you down, sometimes life just really seems unfair.  Sometimes everything that could go wrong, does go wrong, and it all goes wrong at the same time.  Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, you just can't get the "yet praise" out of your mouth.  That's when it pays to know the Word of God, to rehearse the Word, and to feed yourself with the scriptures.  That's when it pays to know Jesus, to really, really know Him in the fellowship of HIS sufferings so that we can put OUR sufferings (light affliction) into perspective.  In the grand scheme of things, even though it's not what you want to hear right now, this IS light.  This is a light affliction, and it's only going to last but for a moment, and it's working a far more exceeding glory in YOU.  This is what's making you, shaping you, molding you into the person God has destined you to be.  Speak over yourself.  Don't wallow in self-pity, don't allow the enemy to run rampant in your mind making you feel defeated.  Take the last ounce of strength you have, and tell him he's a liar, and declare the promises of God over your life.  If you don't have an ounce of strength, borrow mine.

Paul (and Donnie) said that after you've done all to stand, stand some more!

Keep standing.  Has He ever left you hanging?  Has He ever failed to come through for you?  Has He ever let you down?

[changedman]

Leave it to my wife and sister in law! Lol. Thanks guys.

[Dre2004]

You are next in line for a miracle. The enemy has seen your desire to live right and be obedient and is trying to discourage you. Laugh in his face and ask God to take care of you. Trust Him and watch Him move on your behalf. When the enemy comes in like a flood, the spirit of the Lord will raise up a standard against him. Be encouraged.

Ditto, and know that he will supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

[changedman]

Thanks Dre!