Also, let me add, those scriptures you gave in Romans is speaking of "unfair" judgment. To understand where those particular verses are coming from one would have to not only read the entire chapter, but also look at why it was written. Romans 14 deals with the attitudes of a Strong (Mature) Believer and a Weak (new, Babe) believer. The teaching of judging in this chapter admoishes believers not to be critical of our brothers and not to look down upon or brothers because we alll serve the same God and what we all do (strong & weak) is God ordered and for God's glory.
As you said, we need to understand the context in which it was written. Add that to the what Nakia said...
The only reason whey they would say that is because they know that they are doing something wrong and they are mad cause you called them on it...
add what I always say...
which is when you are deceived you don't know it.... I was letting someone misapply the written word although in my spirit I knew what the Lord was trying to say to me.
add the enemy, taking written word, twisting it with the way it's being used, and misapplying it...
and you end up with children justifying themselves and using the bible to do it...That is a sure sign that the enemy is in the camp right now... but he's been exposed... now we pray, get led by the Spirit, and walk in the fruit that we have... and as TheVeteran always says, we have to stand firm in what we beleive.
Either way, the deception part is over... Praise the Lord!