It's a shame that this is being over-looked by so many members!
If you don't want to be a real musician, then just QUIT! I'm forever bothered by guys who claim they want to get better, but only want to jam with their friends ... trading licks. That's fine, but that's not practicing. Anything that requires any type of discipline is passed over for the sensational(Fills that can be learned in a week, to use at church on Sunday).
Unfortunately, this problem will not be solved, 'cause you now have avenues for people who prefer to take that route...
Ummm...
Hate to say this, but gospelchops.com(Sorry Gerald, but I've held this back for a while...) is a part of the problem. Guys get the wrong impression when they go to that site. It ought to be made known that fills & flash aren't the end all and be all of music. They're not even close to be the most important part, but sites dedicated to that, will lead many down the path of incorrect thinking. It reminds me of AND1 basketball. Impressionable kids don't even want to take the time learn the fundamentals of the game ... but, they'll definitely take the time to learn to wrap the ball around someone's head, or dribble it in between their legs and around someone's back.
We need to stop this mess, for real. Do you want to be Showtime, or do you want to MUSICIAN with showmanship? Nothing wrong with showmanship, but if your foundation is built on that - you will forever have to come up with new ways to entertain, because the "Oooooweeee" crowd hates repetitiveness. Once you cease to wow them, you're forgotten, for the next new-jack with a hot new back of tricks...
Musicians play for the music. Halftime shows are of secondary importance to the actual game....