Not trying to be funny, but YES I remember feeling like this when I was a KID, but now that I've matured its far from being like that. 1st off you have to wait on God, be Humble, and put in WORK, all these cats didn't jus wake up one morning and start getting gigs, I could go on and on about this but I know the rest of the fellas are gonna eat this one up. Oh one last thing if you're that good and you network alot, small gigs lead to other gigs big and small, so jus keep standing behind the drummer he'll get tired one day