Good Question!
I had a few circumstances when a complaint came that all i am is about drums, and that is not a living! I was mad a this someone who was in the church who say she loved cared about me, but didn't see the gift,calling and ministry that i have, because it was all about what she wanted me to be, instead of supporting me. I say it is the individual's matuerity, and i learn how to use my time for people