Hey yamahaboy!
I recently started the same topic and asked for hardwaresuggestions.
After doing quite a lot of research i bought the TAMA RoadPro Cymbal Stands.
I really love them!
In my opinion they far better than the yamaha hardware ( I had the tophardware series from yamaha)!
I also checked out dw hardware and must say that i also like them. They have a bit more "specials" like memory locks on the boom for example. But you also can order memory locks for the roadpro hardware.
The Mapex stands will work fine too!!
I think there is not too much which can be done wrong with buying hardware as long as you go with the higher end hardware from companies like: Tama, Mapex DW, Pearl or Sonor
I wouldnt go with Gibraltar cuz I ve played them and they snapped.
Maybe I helped a bit and not confused you even more