Mus, I was sure and positive that I could not sing except in harmony. I have always been able to be in tune and in key really well, but never had a voice for soloing in my opinion. I learned to play the keyboard and was workig with a male chorus. I was teaching them songs and singing parts and demonstrating how songs should go. (for the lead singers ) One of the guys said, why don't you lead some of the songs. We'll back you up. I had to try it. I didn't like how I sounded but people seemed to like the songs that I led. They would ask me to sing. Now I am not perry como but I am not embarrassing myself.
People might like your singing.
Thanks for the words of encouragement
Funny you say that because I experienced that on Sunday after service: Some choir members were practising Thankful (Worship Medley) by Destiny's Child for some function. I heard them singing & I sang along the part which I thought was missing & I was hearing in my head whilst I was looking for someone to talk to.
The next thing I felt this young lady ,with big eyes & mouth open wide, grasping me & calling me to join! I warned her that I was not as good in front of people as I might sound when I'm just singing for me. I can't even start chancing with a song with so many turns / required so much voice control.
That's to say I get your point.
I still am not comfortable singing in front of people- I'm always scared I'll make a mistake & that's it! So Jude, U'r right- a brother is not confident enough.
ps:
Since this thread started, I've been practising my singing- but it's more for my own enjoyment than for the public