I put it like this: (for married folks) when you make love to your wife or husband, i don't think you'll be getting in that kind of mood by listening to "Lord Make Me Over"... now it really depends on the words of the music, Now of course, i do think it's not appropriate to be listening to laffy taffy, or drop it like it's hot... but i believe there are some music that's good for married couples, or even some old school stuff that speaks about music itself.. we also must be careful what we listen too because it is a weight and can lead us to cause sin, however what puzzles me is that as christians, there is such a diverse topic about secular music, on radio's however, we will go to the movies to see a rated R movie, that is not only unholy for the ears but for the sight as well.