Okay. You meet a lady at church that you're interested in and you end up talking on the phone and hanging out together a lot. Meanwhile the lady knows she's pregnant before y'all even meet. 7 months later she's still not showing, but you have noticed she's gained a little weight, which is nothing major to you and you're really feeling her.
The 8th month rolls around and you finally find out. What do you do?
Her reason for not telling you is because she's planning on giving the baby up for adoption.
What are your thoughts? And would you be even madder if someone knew she was preggo and didn't tell you? Females you can give input too...
I hope this doesn't seem self-centered, but I would probably take the situation like this. You know church folks, things WILL get out somehow. Somebody would find out she's pregnant. They'd try to put 2 and 2 together and say I'm the father since I've been seeing her since roughly the time the pregnancy started, and that I fathered a kid out of wedlock. You know the old saying, a lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is just putting its shoes on. That would just bring unwanted drama and mess upon me. Needless to say, I would NOT be happy if I was the recipient of such information. It's a sad situation all around
But think about it, if she could keep a pregnancy under wraps for 8 months, what else could she be hiding?
