What gets on your last nerve?

[Arkhams Finest]

Pessimists.  You know who I'm talking about.

If there's a meeting to find the solution to a problem this person shoots down every suggestion, giving you several reasons why it's a bad idea and won't work...yet they offer no suggestions as to what WILL work.

Feel free to point out flaws when you see them, but don't sit back and snipe if you won't add your own idea to the pot.

[sjonathan02]

Pessimists.  You know who I'm talking about.

If there's a meeting to find the solution to a problem this person shoots down every suggestion, giving you several reasons why it's a bad idea and won't work...yet they offer no suggestions as to what WILL work.

Feel free to point out flaws when you see them, but don't sit back and snipe if you won't add your own idea to the pot.

[Arkhams Finest]

Pessimists.  You know who I'm talking about.

If there's a meeting to find the solution to a problem this person shoots down every suggestion, giving you several reasons why it's a bad idea and won't work...yet they offer no suggestions as to what WILL work.

Feel free to point out flaws when you see them, but don't sit back and snipe if you won't add your own idea to the pot.

I LOL'D

The fact that you found a pic where he's pointing to himself AND looking up at my post....Bravo.

[sjonathan02]

I LOL'D

The fact that you found a pic where he's pointing to himself AND looking up at my post....Bravo.

[Gibby]

Oh, ok.   

You may wanna discuss this with your wife...unless your son is playing tricks on ya. 

I have...plenty of times lol! But I know I do things that annoy her...so we're even. 

and yes she won the arguement lol!

WGOYLN: Managers who try to work themselves out of a job.

[LaylaMonroe]

Gib, for what it's worth, I also hate when the microwave is not cleared out. I have that problem at work and needless to say, there isn't much I can do about it. But it does drive me nuts.

And for the life of me, I cannot understand why someone would leave ONE GLASS in the sink!!! Do you not realize that it literally takes <2 minutes to wash a single dish? Ugh!

[Gibby]

Gib, for what it's worth, I also hate when the microwave is not cleared out. I have that problem at work and needless to say, there isn't much I can do about it. But it does drive me nuts.

And for the life of me, I cannot understand why someone would leave ONE GLASS in the sink!!! Do you not realize that it literally takes <2 minutes to wash a single dish? Ugh!

For the bold...yep annoys me to no end.

and thank you Rue.  Glad i'm not alone on this....

[B_X]

I cannot stand when people get "admonishment" and "judgmental" mixed up.

I know that a lot of church folk tend to judge sometimes when attempting to help someone out in a situation, but don't take everyone's attempt to help speak life into your situation as them trying to judge you. Some folks just care about you so much, they need to be very direct and speak on your issue, before you hurt yourself or someone else... As my grandmother would say, "Eat the fish and spit out the bone..."

[B_X]

I can't stand when people put so much in to their "haters"

A haters job is to HATE. When you are trying so hard to do this or that so your haters can see, are you trying to please them, or are you trying to please God? Are you living for them, or are you living for God? I can't stand for people to buy a brand new car, and then they say something stupid like, "This is for my haters.."

You mean to tell me, you put yourself in debt for your haters? Really? I see in on face book all the time. I heard a minister mention that to his youth department, "Let your haters see you shining..." Why not shine for yourself, and leave your haters to their own affairs... Just a thought.

[B_X]

I cant stand ignoraant people. No way, shape or form.

[LaylaMonroe]

I love B_X's last three... and totally agree.


Also, what gets on my last nerve (and you see a lot of this on FB and Twitter) is when people throw off and then say they're not throwing off.

[Gibby]

I love B_X's last three... and totally agree.


Also, what gets on my last nerve (and you see a lot of this on FB and Twitter) is when people throw off and then say they're not throwing off.

  this is new lingo to me...can you elaborate "por favor"

[B_X]

this is new lingo to me...can you elaborate "por favor"

Teehee, cause you dont want me to define it...

[Gibby]

Teehee, cause you dont want me to define it...

In a PM maybe LOL!

[sjonathan02]

And for the life of me, I cannot understand why someone would leave ONE GLASS in the sink!!! Do you not realize that it literally takes <2 minutes to wash a single dish? Ugh!

YES!!!!!!

Sadly, my wife does this as well.  And, instead of washing said glass, she go and grab another. 

[B_X]

In a PM maybe LOL!

I'd have to say what I though it meant on FaceBook. You still ob my friends list? I went on a deleting frenzie recently.

Sadly, my wife does this as well.  And, instead of washing said glass, she go and grab another. 

So, what's wrong with that? Don't y'all have a dishwasher? LOL...

[Gibby]

I'd have to say what I though it meant on FaceBook. You still ob my friends list? I went on a deleting frenzie recently.

Nice...i'm glad I made the cut 

[LaylaMonroe]

this is new lingo to me...can you elaborate "por favor"

Throwing off is talking about somebody on the sly, usually right in front of them.

YES!!!!!!

Sadly, my wife does this as well.  And, instead of washing said glass, she go and grab another. 

Yeah, I don't get that. I know a LOT of people who do that. I just don't understand.

[B_X]

Throwing off is talking about somebody on the sly, usually right in front of them.

OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhh I cannot stand that

You got something to say to me, say it to me! I cannot stand a coward that will hide behind the internet. I know this is a Christian site... But if you are that bold to talk about me in a round about way, then you can meet me in the parking lot of Wal-Mart and talk it out woman to woman, man to woman, whatever! Ooh LaRue, you almost made me jump into the computer!

Why even have them on your friends list? Guuurllll.... Mmm mmm mmm... Now THAT got my pulse up to about 80 BPM... (@Gibby)

[LaylaMonroe]

LOL @ B_X!

It's not even only on social networking. It happens at church a lot - not EVERYBODY's church, obviously, but a lot of pastors do that. I've heard many pastors whose entire sermon was framed around something somebody did... and when they get to the whole "you ain't gon do whatever you wanna do up in here! This is GOD'S house!!! Some of y'all got the spirit of Jezebel, thinking you can control the prophet and tell me what to do and blah blah blah....." and usually when there's a "some of y'all," the preacher is throwing off and you can bet your last dollar that somebody did something in the last few days that ticked him off...

I've heard the "one monkey don't stop no show" sermon after a senior leader resigns from the church or had a disagreement with the pastor and decided to stay home that day... I've heard the Jezebel sermon just about every time a person does something manipulative. I've heard the "God doesn't need you (and neither do I!!!), you need God" sermon every time a person is supposed to be ushering (or teaching SS or singing in the choir, etc.) but they aren't on post... Obviously not every time is throwing off, but you can usually tell if you work closely enough with the pastor.