Things that get on my nerves:
- When people who don't know you or your skills assume you have a certain skill level, in spite of your protest, and when you show that you weren't being modest they immediately get mad at you for wasting their time or assume you didn't try your best.
- When people assume you are a chump for going to school, assume you literally didn't learn anything, then proceed to lecture you, as if they're talking to a child, on stuff you already know.
- When people try to make you okay with stuff that clearly isn't okay.
- When people insist on options that are not feasible or reasonable for my life as it stands right now, then call me lazy or complacent when I try to explain why certain things won't work for me.
- When people treat me like my visual stereotype
- When you don't speak up and you're considered nice, but do speak up and you're considered mean.
- When you're being completely reasonable about something but are called rigid and not creative.
- When you warn people about pitfalls, they don't care, fall into said pit, and then blame you.
- When people believe people who go out of their way to do harm to you as if they're the authority on everything that has to do with you.
- When people accept high school-type behavior when it's done though the guise of "being professional".
- When people try to hold you to stuff you never signed up for, then call you lazy because you won't go "above and beyond" because you won't commit time you don't have.
- When stuff happens but you can't do anything about it because it's your words against theirs.
