Yo, good thing I aint easily offended like my dude Spanky...LOL!!! That's a joke, I swear it is. Spank is my dude for life, and I know exactly how he feels. That's another story tho. I wanted to comment on this topic becuz, well I feel like I can...LOL
While I'll agree that the industry is highly political, it's waaaaaaay more than a bunch of butt-kissing. There are tons of talented musicians everywhere, especially in Chicago! But talent isn't even 50% of what it's about. Like one of the guys said, it's about getting along with people. You might be able to play circles around the next guy. But can people deal with your attitude? Real talk fellaz, it aint about kissin' up, being friends with the artist, hanging out....NONE OF THAT! I played and worked for R.Kelly for 2 1/2 years. We never EVER held a conversation. I never EVER hungout WITH HIM. Why would I? I don't need to. Rob hired me himself. I was doing a jingle session and he heard me soundchecking my drums. He sent Donny Lyle(his M.D.) over to collect my info. Now, I had established somewhat of a reputation in the gospel community, because I was playing with JPK then. But that didn't mean diddly to them. They actually hired another dude first, who came recommended as a good RnB drummer. But he wasn't cuttin it. So, they called me down to play a rehearsal. They asked me to solo, play pocket program....all that. And at the end of the day, I didn't do anything but count the songs off and play pocket. That gig wasn't about skill. It was about maturity and my ability to gel. We were out for a year straight. You gotta be able to get along with people, to be out that long.
As far as me working so much, it's true that I've developed relationships with certain artists and producers. But those relationships wouldn't mean anything if I couldn't deliver. I get work because I can read. Because I show up on time. Because I learn the music. Because I understand theory. Because I can arrange. Because I take care of my gear. Because I'm always prepared. This is what the game is about. Me and Aaron Lindsey are tight! But if he called me for a session and I didn't learn the music, he wouldn't call me anymore. Guess what, we still gon be tight too!!!
Flat made a great point too.....it's something I've said all my life!!! I've always wanted to be me. I didn't want anybody to say "Calvin, that used to play with Fred or Ricky Dillard". You know why? Because most times, they don't even remember your name!!! It usually sounds like this: "What's the dude name that played drums for Ricky Dillard, before Brent". LOL That's wack!!!
Lastly fellaz, stop thinking that drummers don't help drummers. That aint the truth. Teddy helped me, I helped Rex, I'm helping cats right now. But the thing is, I aint insecure. Also, the guys I help gotta have the right mindset. Gerald helped Aaron get on, and aint think twice about it. Why would he? What RnB gig hasn't Gerald done???? Envy and jealousy will get you nowhere!!! Okay, I'm done
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