If another dude gets to shouting at church, you should NOT be the first to go over and try to "restrain" him. In fact, you should be physically forced before even considering it.
If you're the dude who gets to shouting, once it's over, your hands should not be resting on your hips as you try to regain yourself.
If you can't tell me who won the game last night, but you can tell me what happened on The Real Housewives of Wherever...VIOLATION!