This here brother is saved, sanctified, single, and not asking for samples. And I get more sisters asking me for dates then I ask them. Yes, I am considering somebody . . . she is a powerful preacher; sister girl can preach me all up
under the table; has a mighty gift of faith, simply decides to beleive for things and
she gets them,

looking at other people like, "What? Why are you so surprised? Didn't I tell you I had my faith out for this?" . . . anyone who thinks I'm going to be responsible for tempting her to fall is loony!
She has a Powerful Daddy . . . One Who even knows my thoughts!

(And yes, LGM family . . . I
could make some sisters stumble if I was inclined to do so

On top of having several things going for me, I am just plain charming, children love me, I like to cook and I can romance women in three different languages. Ask somebody.)
I would be scared to peices to ask a sister to give up her relationship with GOD to help me scratch an itch. I know Who her Father Is, and no way I'm standing before HIM over that!
I am
not saying that people who have fallen into sin are not saved . . . but there is a difference between being tempted and falling into sin, sincerely repenting and getting back up and not doing it again . . . there is a difference between that and giving up samples until marriage.
Nor am I saying that saints can't struggle with issues, or may fall into some things that they aren't proud that they did.
But give up samples until marriage? Sorry . . . saints don't do that. The Bible says that no fornicator will enter into the kingdom of GOD. That verse implies that fornication, or adultery, is a way of life . . . not something they have done and don't do anymore.
So I repeat . . . saved sisters don't give samples, and saved men don't ask for them. The only sample I'm even considering / praying over is asking for a sample ring size . . . but we ain't there yet.
I agree with you, Bro Uriah . . . that people who do such things should indeed fell guilty. Granted, I agree with you. But not because they are sampling . . . they should feel guilty because they aren't saved and pretending that they are.