Thanks for all the info. If the spirit so leads me to talk with her then I will suggest this to her, but I don't want to cause any problems!!!
On a personal note, I think I will work on my singing voice. I don't want to be limited in any way. I may be placed in a situation where I have to sing, because there isn't a person who can give parts correctly.
This has happened to me already!
From experience I've found that there aren't many trained musicians in rural areas, so you may have to work with a choir that has 0 training.
Whats another 30 minutes a day to work on my voice.
Thanks Again